It is certainly not an easy decision to choose a partner in
marriage. Lots of people have made the mistake of choosing wrongly and
this usually ends up costing them a lot.
As they say, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
So before you walk down the aisle with the woman you are dating, do
consider these simple signs below that she would make a good wife for
you.
1. Honesty: You absolutely should not
consider settling down with someone you suspect or believe to be
dishonest. Your wife-to-be should be trustworthy and you should be able
to vouch for her every action. No relationship can survive without
trust.
2. Respectful:
Respect for another human being is a key character strength in anybody.
Respect for the person you are going to spend the rest of your life
with is even more crucial. She should show respect to you, even when she
disagrees with you. There are ways a woman can respectfully share her
views that would make her man want to listen. She should not look down
on you or resort to insults anytime disagreement comes up. You should
always be able to count on her respect.
3. Supportive:
Any man who hopes to reach his potential while being married should
make sure he marries a woman who is supportive. He should be with
someone who understands his dreams and goals. He should be sure to be
with a partner who is his Number one Fan who would always take his side.
4. Secure:
A woman secured in herself is one who will make a good wife. An
insecure woman would find it difficult to be secure in her marriage. She
would end up listening to friends and seeking their opinion on
issues because she is always unsure of her man and of her marriage.
It is okay for her to ask for advice, but when she is not secure
enough in herself to make the right decisions for her family without
bringing in outsiders, then you would definitely have problems.
5. Maturity:
You know how they say maturity is not always about age? Being in a
marriage takes a certain level of maturity that not every woman out
there has. She should be able to know how to act like an adult, know how
to solve problems without throwing tantrums.
6. Beautiful (inside and out):
It does not matter if your woman is not the most beautiful girl in the
whole world. All that matters is that you think she is beautiful to you.
You need to feel some form of physical attraction to the woman you
intend to marry, otherwise, you would not be content with her. You
should also look for her inner beauty. Her strength, character and other
attributes you find attractive are what will remain long after the
physical beauty is no more.
7.Realistic: Most
women, as young girls, often dream of the perfect man, who would provide
the perfect mansion, with perfect children and a lifetime of fairy-tale
perfection. But we all know life does not work that way. Nothing and no
one is perfect. Those are just dreams.
Make sure the woman you
want to get married to understands this and recognizes that
imperfections are just part of life. And just because everything is not
rosy and beautiful, does not mean it is not a good thing.
8. Nurturing:
Everyone likes to feel taken care of. The woman you choose to spend the
rest of your life with should be nurturing and enjoy taking care of
you. She should make you feel cherished. She should know the things
that make you feel good and attempt to do them from time to time.
9. Humble:
Being married involves understanding that what you do and how you act
has a direct effect on your partner. You should not be too proud or feel
too big to do certain things, regardless of whether or not you did them
when you were single. If you have any reservation about some things,
then you should be able to express your views without making the other
person feel like they do not matter.
10. Loves You:
This should be the first thing to look out for when choosing a partner,
but we kept it for last because, no matter how much the woman you have
fulfills all the above requirements, the marriage will not last long if
she does not love you.
A woman who loves you will always make you
feel good on a bad day, always make you feel like a real man, and will
stay with you no matter what.
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